Why guys pull away and lose interest?
“You want them when they don’t want you, soon as they do, feelings change”… that’s the iconic line from Eminem’s 2011 song Space Bound. It describes a phenomenon that happens far too often for some people.. A guy is super interested in you… texting you all the time.. blowing up your phone… wants to see you… at first you’re hesitant.. but after a little bit, he catches your attention and now you’re liking him… and then boom… you feel a sudden change in him.. and you know he’s pulling away.. What happened? Why did this man lose interest? In this video, I’m explain the top 4 reasons why guys lose interest, why guys pull away, and why guys disappear.
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Every new relationship is ignited by sparks of interest, allure, and a desire to be near one another. This attraction can be physical, sexual, emotional, or a combination of all of them and results in what many people call “chemistry”. When we feel this chemistry with another person, we know it, and the feeling is unmistakable. But what happens next depends on circumstances, availability, and most of all, how the two choose to interact with one another.
We have all had the experience of being very excited about someone who likes us, we meet a person… feel the chemistry.. maybe go on a date or begin texting, talking.. getting to know one another… and then BOOM!!! Something happens. There’s a sudden and obvious change in their responsiveness to you…
In the worst case, that person just ghosts you… no longer responds or communicates and offers no explanation. Yes.. they leave you hanging and questioning your every communication…was it something I said? Did they learn something about me that they don’t like? Why is the person you want, no longer interested in you? Here are the top four reasons.
1. You think you’re more compatible than you really are.
2. He thinks you have no life..
3. You’re constantly attracted to people who are unavailable or otherwise bad for you.
4 It’s a triggered emotional response…
Remember, anyone who is dating will have these experiences and it won’t feel good. What’s important is that you quickly recognize when your feelings are no longer being reciprocated —and once you’re aware, adjust your behaviors and feelings accordingly.
Don’t waste your time worrying about the person who isn’t showing as much interest as you are. Move forward and meet someone as eager about a relationship as you are. Don’t settle for anything less. I know I certainly wont… You deserve a person who’s just as excited about you and knows how to show it, right?
I know you all have “change of heart stories” or situations where you were left wondering why he lost interest, why he pulled away, or why he disappeared. If you’d like my help trying to understand something, or why a guy pulled away or lost interest, leave a comment below and I’ll share my thoughts.
I’m Dr. Antonio Borrello, a psychologist and dating and relationship expert and author of Dating 3.0: Finding Love in the Age of Social Media and the Smart Phone.
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